Testimonials

"Thanks to your expertise, my wife and I now problem-solve together, instead of playing the “I’m right, you’re wrong” game. We still have our disagreements, but using the methods you taught us, we’re able to work them out."
- C.G.
"My husband and I feel that the effort, patience and professional knowledge that you put into our sessions helped us considerably. We know that as a result, we have a better understanding of each other, enabling us to have a much better marriage. We thank you."
- A. & P.T.
"You were so easy to talk to and I felt so supported during my divorce. I know I could have been very bitter over what happened, but you helped me see things from a different point of view. And now the relationship I have with my ex-husband is cordial and more co-operative about the children than I ever thought possible."
- N.B.
"I was at the end of my rope with my daughter, when I called your office. In our sessions, I came to realize that having so much responsibility as a kid, left me with taking on other people’s problems as an adult. With your guidance, I started to pay attention to my own feelings, needs and wants and our relationship improved drastically! I am so glad I picked up the phone and called you."
- T.Y.

Relationships

I’ll help you with: 

  • Communication Skills
  • Separation, Divorce
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Develop Commitment
  • Assertiveness Training
  • Assessment/Evaluation
  • Parenting
  • Are you growing farther apart every day?
  • Are mistakes or past grudges keeping you from having the relationship you want?
  • Your relationship isn’t going anywhere, it feels stale and dull.
  • You’re simply co-existing in the same house, but never really connecting.
  • Your sense of fun and joy in each other has been replaced by resignation and complacency
  • Your partner seems upset, but when you ask, “What’s wrong?” they reply “Nothing”.
  • Are you having the same fight, over and over again?
  • Are other commitments taking priority over your marriage?

These are some of the warning signs that your relationship needs help. The longer you wait, the harder it is to make the changes for improvement.

Good relationships don’t just happen. They require time and effort and a skill set that you may never have been taught. Fortunately, you can identify what is missing and learn these skills, whether you come alone to counseling or your partner comes with you.

How does it work?

  1. I listen carefully to what each of you want and what you think is missing from your relationship,
  2. I also assess what resources you have to putting your relationship back on track.
  3. If I think there are additional goals that could benefit you, I’ll bring them to your attention and then you can decide whether my recommendation has value for you or not.
  4. I avoid taking sides,
  5. I’ll teach you more effective communication tools
  6. I’ll give you homework to integrate what you learn in our sessions.

If you are on the verge of separating or considering divorce, you owe it to yourself for the time and energy you have put into your relationship, to discover what happened, and what you can do about it now.

If you don’t, you are destined to make the same mistakes again in a new relationship.

Focus on changing yourself rather than changing your partner.
Very few people want to focus on improving their own patterns. It’s more common to build a strong case for why your partner should do the improving. But you can’t change your partner. You can only influence each other.

Counseling is valuable in the following ways:

  • You’ll learn to identify destructive and unproductive patterns of relating.
  • You practice and strengthen new, better ways to relate
  • Clarify the kind of life you want to build together.
  • Become the kind of partner you want to be.
  • Improve you reaction to problems.

Call me to discover how I can serve you.

Improve your relationships and enhance your professional life.

(916) 485-6392


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